candyboots' Friends

Hello my fatshonista's! I come to you as a new member whose recently had a self-pity party about their weight only to realize that it's her own fault for dressing in crappy clothes and pretending like fat wouldn't look fat in certain things. Ha.

I'm mostly here to ask 2 questions.

1 - I grew up as a sport-playing tomboy so jeans and t-shirts have always been my thing. I have a few "nicer" pieces in my closet, but not much and I blame that on both the lack of funds & like I said before, the on and off again attempt to "hide" under clothes I felt comfortable in.
That said, I've come to ask you fashionable ladies, What are some necessities and fashion basics you need in your closet? Can't live without a cardigan? Love love leggings? Tell me some key pieces I should invest in! I own way to many graphic t-shirts and bland jeans and only have about 2 pairs of sneakers.

2 - Second question: A good wont totally bankrupt me leather jacket (or if not, a pea coat)? I'm into the "edgy/rocker" look and have wanted a good leather jacket for a while. Anyone know where I may be directed?

I'm 5'6 and a smidge, and weight 232 pounds. Last time I checked I was 45-45-?. I seem to carry my weight all over. I've got thick thighs & calves and a poofy stomach and thick arms. Some pictures under the cut for introductory/visual aid/jacket help. I'm not sure how to describe my size..pear, apple...I can't tell!

Love the post here, and can't wait to keep feeling better about myself and getting more into fashion! :)

( Annd...here we go! )

Current Mood: nervous

2 OOTD
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5'3'' deathfat, size 22-28 top and bottoms

First OOTD!
Please be gentle. Haha.

( Shoes 'n' stuff behind the cut! )

Jacket - Venezia via Lane Bryant.
Dress - JMS via Walmart
Bag - really old. Let's be nice and call it vintage? ;)
Necklace - had it for a decade, so I don't know.
Earrings - Catherine's or Lane Bryant. Learning towards Catherine's.
Shoes - Predictions via Payless.

Although it's already November, it's still in the mid to high seventies 'round these parts, so tights would've been overkill. Heck, the jacket was nearly too warm. Also, although those shoes appear to be comfy, they're actually pretty awful.

And, am I the only one who rocks Walmart dresses? Haha.

Current Mood: dorky
Current Music: "The Game is Over" by *NSYNC

Duo Boots review, and a cautionary tale
So a few weeks ago, I posted asking about Duo Boots. I did end up ordering the Pavia style. They arrived amazingly fast -- I ordered on a Thursday and they arrived the following Monday morning. From the UK! to Philadelphia! the 21st century is awesome!

The boots, however, were... less than awesome. ( Read more... )

In search for a black fringe dress
Hey lovelies,

I'm in search for a black fringe dress for a Charleston belly burlesque performance in December. I'm having very little luck in finding one that would fit me and doesn't cost me an arm and leg! I'm based in Melbourne so shipping cost is a bit problematic, too. My measurements are 42-35-44inches. Any help would be much appreciated!

Here's an OOTD to make the post a bit more interesting, haha.

In case that doesn't work, here is the direct link to the photo: http://photos-f.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-snc3/hs022.snc3/10936_503320826070_219900074_56752_3169376_n.jpg

Black shirt and leggings from Supre.
Dress from plus size shop in Taiwan.
Boots from ABC Mart in Japan.

Thanks :)

Current Mood: hopeful

OOTD!
G'day again everyone. I wasn't intending to post again so soon, but this was another new piece of clothing that I bought and loved the other day, so I thought I should show it off.

For those of you who keep a track record of what everybody wears on here, you'll notice that the boots are the same as the ones I was wearing last time. I own other shoes, I swear, but the only other ones appropriate for winter are fairly unflattering sneakers.

Without further ado, here is the somewhat fuzzy photo (sorry about that. perhaps my friend fails at photo-taking, not that i'd ever tell her that):

Current Mood: tired
Current Music: none.

OOTD and in search of...
I'm looking for a pair of very high waisted trousers/pants/jeans in a size 16 US. Perferably with the square panel in the front and black or gray, but anything available would be nice to know about.

Cello!
Dear Fatshionistas,

My name is Erin Claire, and I'm from Baton Rouge, Louisiana. I should get to the point and say that my extended stay in this fashion rut has become too droll to withstand any longer. I don't have any photos, but my measurements are 48-37-51, and I was wondering if I could persuade those with similar digits to post photos of themselves in their flyest outfits, so that, ya know, I can ~~blatantly bite your style~~ garner inspiration from your stylish profundity. Also, since I would never wish to exclude anyone, would it be possible for you folks to tell me about an outfit, an item of clothing, or an accessory, or whathaveyou, that makes you feel your best? I'd be super grateful for any feedback.

I appreciate you all.

Love,
Erin Claire

P.S. Forgot to mention that I'm 5'5" and roughly 240 pounds.

Current Music: Elvis Perkins- While You Were Sleeping

Ootd!

Mind the schnauzer head in the foreground!

So....
Sweater: Banana Republic-lg
Belt and Skirt combo-Mac and Jac 16-thrifted
Legg'ns-ross plus one size-cheap

I am not 100% in love with the outfit...but when I went out, I wore it with knee high flat black boots.

Also...lambs...any ideas on hair 'do's for me?
I have never been hair savvy, and a sleek pony is about as exciting as it gets.
Hair gurus....any thoughts on fancy hair for me? Style, cut, length, colour?

Who knows!

Current Mood: sleepy
Current Music: radio one!

Opinions needed
Hi all-

I think I found something that I like to wear for my bday. My problem is i'd rather wear the dress with flats because I'm going to be on my feet all night and my feet aren't the most heel friendly. Do you think I can pull it off with flats? What would you suggest as far as shoes and accessories? FYI the dress comes with a belt but the dress is a regular size 16 so the belt doesn't work so well.

( Black dress )

does anyone have this dress from evans yet? i'm dyyyying for it but i've never ordered from them before so i have no idea what to expect. also if anyone could speak to the quality, of this dress or in general? i got a promotion at work and i'm going to reward myself handsomely, but this dress is gonna be about $130 after shipping which is a lot if it's going to suck.

also, trying to muster the energy to post some ootds, any day now...

LOVE Y'ALL

Where can I buy....
I'm looking for a couple of things, but I'm not sure where to look. Maybe you all can help me? For reference, my measurements are: 45"/34J bust, 33" waist, 44" hips, 190lbs.
I want a pair of stockings like these (NSFW; picture of Dita Von Teese), except that cover all of my legs. I saw them, and now I can't live without them!
I also am looking for some thick stretchy belts (somewhat like this), but I really would love something with a large bow or something on the front. I want them in black, red and white. I haven't seen any for sale anywhere!

OOTD, DIY Pencil Skirt

Hey Everyone,

So, here is another OOTD with some of the basics that I love. But to top it off, I found this skirt for $3, it was originally ankle length and rather unflattering. So, to make it a bit more stylish, I tailored it to sit higher on me (high-waisted) and cut about 11 inches off the bottom. Then, with some of the extra fabric, I made a tiny fish tail for the back instead of putting in a slit. Over all I think it was definitely worth the $3 I spent.

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OOTD + Ferocious Ankle Boots
Avenue has these amazing ankle boots. I got mine at a Brooklyn Avenue, like 2 weeks ago, although they have just appeared on the website.

Boots

I have the gray and black. My only critique would be the silvertone hardware. I am going to replace it all, when I am less lazy.

This is me, wearing them.

( Under the cut...... )

OOTDs! zowie!
i am nearly caught up with old-ish outfits that have been languishing on my camera for ages. here are the last of them! (one a little NSFW maybe)

( outfits, outfats )
i also wanted to share this excerpt... i have been doing lots of reading about fat recently (here, in the blogosphere, and also in books and zines and things) and this particular essay had me nodding emphatically (or maybe emFATically) along. this whole book is pretty awesome, actually.

( ranty ranty )

thanks to everyone for being so f(l)abulous and encouraging and inspiring.

BBC News article "Obese 'struggle to earn living'"
Hi everyone!

Have been reading the community profile page (whilst supposed to be typing my dissertation...) and was interested to see that 'fat' politics were up for discussion here too.

BBC recently published the results of a survey (http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/health/8337512.stm) and I wondered what you all might think about it?

I can't say my size has ever held me back from gaining well paid employment...

Current Mood: cold
Current Music: none, partner watching football (yawn)

OOTD
I went out last night to movie and drinks and this is what I wore. I'm going to ditch the black shirt the next time I wear this skirt because its a little big.

( OOTD )

Men's jeans and trousers and fashion advice
Hi all,

This post is not about me, but concerns the boyfriend. He weighs about 270 lb and is 5ft 9. He had no problem finding nice jumpers and shirts, but does have a problem finding well fitting trousers and jeans. He carries most of his weight on his belly, while his hips and legs are quite slim. Does anyone know where to find trousers with lots of room around the belly, but pretty formfitting around his butt, hips and legs? He wears a 40(width)/ 32(length.) He definitly needs this size around the belly, but could probably wear up to 2 sizes smaller on the hips and legs. Does anyone know where to get just the right ones?

A.i.: We're located in The Netherlands, if it is a pair of high quality jeans with a great fit he probably would be willing to spend quite some money(but if that is not necesarry it would be nice.)

Next to that: Tips about nice styles(in all clothing) for men to wear are also welcome. He is trying to find more of his own style that fits his age and personna(he's 26). My boyfriend likes to look nice, but I don't think he would go for anything with too bold colours or flashy prints. And he does not like to take a long time to get dressed in the morning. He now wears a lot of grey, blue and black. It can be casual or more dressed. I would love hear your suggestions and see some pictures!

Thanks in advance!

Elvira

I tried on wedding dresses!

I went to Alfred Angelo (Angie in OKC is AWESOME!!!) and also David's Bridal (I don't even know the name of the girl who helped me... she kinda sucked). I had so much fun. I also found my bridesmaid's dresses. Anyway, I'm still floating on excitement, so I wanted to share.

If you want to see all the pics, you can click on this link for the wedding dresses:
http://www.flickr.com/photos/30964727@N02/sets/72157622756137732/

and this link for the Bridesmaids:
http://www.flickr.com/photos/tisha_mc/sets/72157622631751695/

( Warning: VERY Picture Heavy! )

As always, honest feedback is welcome.

Current Mood: giddy

New Dress!
I went out today not even intending to buy anything but I picked up a little black dress and I loves it!!
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First OOTD! and Faith 21

Hey Everyone,

I made my first post here with an illustration, but after seeing how beautiful and stylish everyone is, I figured I would give this OOTD stuff a try.

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Current Mood: artistic
Current Music: Dead Man's Bones

My first OOTD!
G'day fellow fats!

(OK, that was a corny greeting, but it felt right somehow).

So I've been watching/commenting on this comm for the past few days, and I have to say I think all of you have AMAZING fashion sense. Some of the combos you guys have put together... *is floored*

So, I thought I'd try and impart some of my own wisdom as a fellow plus-sized fashion tragic.

I got a bit annoyed with having nothing particularly inspirational in my wardrobe. I tend to avoid clothes shopping because I find it kind of a depressing task with my current financial situation and of course my size. but i thought "to hell with it" and headed to my local shopping centre. After getting thoroughly annoyed at the fact that those weird skirts that go in are the fashion right now (i don't get it. how do you walk in those things?), I went into Bhs and discovered, after some searching, the most awesome skirt i'd ever seen since the full-length green number from Katies some 5 years ago. The largest size was at least 2 sizes too small, but i bought it anyway thinking to myself "hell, i'll MAKE it fit".

I'm wearing it a bit higher than it's supposed to be worn. I think it's supposed to go just past the knee or something, but i kind of like it knee-length. Try to ignore the boring black top i've got on. it's the only thing i had at home that goes with it. I'm thinking I might look for a grey loosish singlet-type top. I think that, with a black wrap-around thing and maybe some nice black/grey beads, would work best with it. But anyway, tell me what y'all think.

( Skirtish yay. )

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